She doesn’t like you enough to want to be in a relationship with you, as there isn’t enough romantic chemistry.

To her, the relationship is strictly platonic.

Yes, I know that this is too punishing to accept considering you really like this girl.

You want more than anything to be in a relationship with this girl.

Unfortunately, that part of you that wants to be in a relationship with her so badly tends to take over common sense.

You believe that she likes you romantically in the same manner that you like her.

You tell yourself this because you want her to be with you so bad.

However, the truth is that she doesn’t like you romantically.

She enjoys knowing you do like her and likes the attention to an extent, but she isn’t getting into a relationship with you for a reason.

She doesn’t want a relationship because you don’t give her the spark she needs in order to be in one.

This doesn’t mean that she can’t see herself in a relationship with someone at this time.

It’s that she can’t see herself in a relationship with you.

Not as a romance.

As a friend.

Listen, I know that this is hard to accept but you have to understand it and start getting over it.

The longer you remain in this well of desire and wishes, the harder it is for you to move forward and meet another girl who is definitively interested in being in a relationship with you.

This is the hard part.

Accepting the hard truth is difficult.

It forces you to acknowledge your reality and let go of what you wish for.

Look at it this way.

A single girl is technically available.

When she tells you she doesn’t want to be in a relationship, she is showing that you aren’t doing it for her.

She isn’t excited and motivated enough to want to take her relationship with you to the next level.

This doesn’t mean that you should go out there and start doing everything in your power to impress and force her to change her mind.

This is a waste of energy.

Instead, take that energy and live a fulfilling life.

Fill it with activities you love and be social.

This behavior gets her to realize that there is romantic potential.

When you are not all over her and you are doing your own thing, you are demonstrating independence and this is exceptionally appealing to girls.

When a girl knows that you don’t need her to be happy or have a fun-filled life, she tends to look at that as attractive.

This being said, there are no assurances she comes around to liking you when you demonstrate this behavior.