Be as natural as you can when you kiss a girl, as opposed to making the mistake many guys do in forcing the kiss.

When you force the kissing, you make it feel rushed, wooden, and embarrassingly uncomfortable.

You make the girl feel awkward, which is never a good outcome, as it makes it much harder for her to loosen up and get into the kiss.

Just try to relax, even though every fiber of your being is on full alert in this moment.

I know that you are nervous.

You want to impress this girl and show her that you know what you are doing, which makes you nervous about letting her see any inexperience on your part.

Unfortunately, this is exactly what could lead you to ruin the kiss.

You need to take the pressure off yourself.

Imagine that you are as light as a feather.

There is nothing holding you down.

You blow as the wind takes you.

That is what you do with this kiss.

You kiss lightly on the lips and simply allow the kiss to take you where it chooses to.

You will sense her body language and the way she is responding to the kiss.

Your body language will also start to mirror what she is doing.

Should she lean in further to the kiss, do the same.

If she touches you during the kiss, do the same.

You are both reacting naturally to the moment.

There is nothing forced and there is no pressure.

You are both within your element.

When you kiss in this fashion, you will have a great kiss.

A great kiss is something that is real and authentic.

It happens the way it should, thanks to either party softly permitting it, without force.

Forcing your response doesn’t work.

Your body language wouldn’t be in tune with her own.

This means that the kiss is completely out of sync and disconnected.

It almost feels like you are two complete strangers kissing.

There is no real connection there.

If you need to feel more of a connection as you kiss, you can touch her cheek lightly.

That sense of touch can create comfort.

When she feels your light touch on her face, she feels safe and secure.

This allows her to get lost in the moment and let the kiss take her wherever it chooses to.

Remember that she is nervous about this kiss too.

Kissing her lightly on the lips gives her relief from her anxiety.

She loosens up, allowing her body language to start matching with your own.

She touches your face, hair, or wraps her hands around your shoulders.

She is lost in the moment and simply letting it happen.

She is allowing her body language to flow freely.

This is when you have kissed her the right way.

Regardless of whether you have very little experience kissing or never have, focus on soft, easy, and unforced.

Let the kiss guide you as opposed to you guiding the kiss.