Being yourself is critical, as this is what keeps you comfortable and in charge of your temperament.

Do enough for her to acknowledge you.

This is an area where you aren’t shy or overly restrictive with your behavior.

Doing it right makes the difference.

Take as many of the qualities that you know your friends or family love about you and put them on display.

Are you a funny guy?

Show it.

Are you smart?

Show it.

Are you a little on the cocky side?

Show it.

Don’t take the cockiness too far though.

It’s one thing to be a little bit cocky and still desirable and another to be so full of yourself that you turn the girl off.

Avoid being something that you are not.

A lot of guys fall into this trap.

They want to impress the girl so much that they act like someone they are not.

The problem with this is that the girl picks up on it sooner or later.

When she doesn’t initially, it doesn’t take long before she observes chinks in your armor.

In other words, you crack.

It is only natural.

As a human being, a fake persona isn’t sustainable.

Inevitably, it cracks and traces of your true personality is revealed.

Once this happens, you have lost her.

Be yourself.

Have something interesting to talk about.

Avoid the mundane and safe topics of discussion.

She has had them before and this doesn’t set you apart from all the other guys that are working hard to impress her.

Instead of talking about how her day is going for example, ask her to tell you about one of her best days.

What did she do?

Where did she go?

Who was she with?

These are open-ended questions that facilitate conversation.

In having her recall one of her best days, she is recollecting happy and good thoughts.

These thoughts in memory automatically places her in a better mood.

This is the mood you want her to be in.

As a human being, when you think of a happy memory, it makes your entire mood happy and pleasant.

Right at this moment, she is feeling positive and you are giving her a good impression of you.

Be personable when you are within her vicinity.

Work the room.

Let her see how you are with other people.

This is the social side to your personality.

A guy with good social skills is impressive to a girl, as they are attracted to social guys.

Stop by where she is from time to time, have a brief conversation with her, then move on to other people.

This leaves her wanting.

Every time she sees you with the others, she wants you to come back to her and have more of a conversation.

She is glancing in your direction from time to time, observing you.

You have barely spoken to her so far and yet, you are leaving a good impression on her.

Leaving a good impression on a girl is about showing your unique individuality and being yourself.

Do this and she is captivated.