To get a girlfriend in college, you should be open to experiencing as much as the college is willing to offer socially and then some.
For many, college is almost like a social experiment. There is so much to see and experience. This is a stage in life that you will make friends and connections that will last a lifetime.
This is when you will be able to pursue your dream to be an engineer, doctor etc.
Hence, this is also the time for you to put out the effort to be social.
College offers you so much opportunity. You will not experience this kind of opportunity in any other arena after you graduate and start your full time career.
To get a girlfriend, start getting involved.
Colleges have social clubs or groups. Figure out what you are interested in and join several.
However, there should be a balance. You shouldn’t join too many at one time. You may want to keep your social club membership to about three at a time.
If one doesn’t work out and you are simply not enjoying it, you can always replace it with a new one.
However, your primary intention must be to socialize.
Again, college is not only where you may meet your girlfriend but it is also where you will more than likely meet your lifelong friends. Use this opportunity to open yourself up to everything your college has to offer.
If politics is your interest, join the club or group.
If you don’t have a politics club in your college, create one.
This is a very effective way to become seen as a leader in your college. It isn’t hard to create one.
Simply let your classmates and dorm-mates know about it and tell them to spread the word around. Let the people you meet in the other social clubs that you join know about it too.
You have membership to your brand new politics club before you even know it.
Again, creating your own social group will make you appear assertive and show that you have leadership qualities. Girls love men who are leaders.
There is a good chance that while partaking in all of this, you will meet a girl who shows interest in you. You will already have something in common being that you are both members of the same social group. This is always a good start.
Remember though that you still need to be sociable. Just being part of the group isn’t enough.
You have to be actively trying to contribute to the group and even going above and beyond what is required. You have to take a genuine interest in all members of the group, not just the girls you like.
You have to do this because girls want to see that you are genuine. If you join a social club simply because you are trying to meet girls but you have no interest in contributing to the club, they will be able to tell very easily.
This will ruin your chances with them because they will sense subterfuge.
Getting that girlfriend in college doesn’t happen overnight.
Your time spent being sociable will eventually pay off but girls have to see you enough to begin to accept you.
Let your personality shine through. Be genuine, patient and kind.
You will eventually meet the right girl for you.
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