If you used to always stress about guys but now, you’re in love, you should understand that your emotions need to be kept in check.
Those who typically stress about guys are the ones who tend to fall prey to a guy who knows how to sweet talk.
There are guys who are really good at this.
Perhaps you believe that all that stress has been worth it. However, you do need to be cognizant of your possible susceptibility.
If you were stressing about guys in the past, there was a reason for it. Perhaps, you weren’t meeting the kind of guys that you liked.
Perhaps, you were always falling for the guys who didn’t like you back in return.
Perhaps, you lacked a healthy dose of self-esteem.
Whatever the reason for the stress that guys caused you in the past, understand that whatever that reason may have been, it may have put you on a course of vulnerability.
This is a dangerous course.
You may have fallen in love with that one guy that has finally given you the attention you have so badly wanted from guys in the past. He may be cute and appears to really say the right things as well. However, you may also not be seeing all there is to see.
As people, we tend to ignore unpleasant signs when we don’t want those signs to ruin the romance we crave.
Is this guy truly perfect?
Think about it.
Have you noticed how he acts around his friends or strangers in general. Is he kind and generous? Does he have real conversations with you or are all of your conversations relatively unsubstantial?
It’s not that he may not have the same feelings for you.
Indeed, he may be in love with you as well.
However, try not to get so overwhelmed by the feeling that you have finally met that guy that you forget to look at his entire personality.
Tread with caution and ensure that you don’t allow your feelings to get the best of you.
It can be easy to get really caught up in where you think things could go with this guy.
You can become very creative with the way you will start envisioning the future.
However, even though you are no longer stressing about guys, remember that there was a reason why you were stressing about guys in the first place.
If it had to do with a deficiency or insecurity within you, that doesn’t go away simply because you are in love with this guy.
Hence, ensure that you continue the work necessary on yourself in order to continue being the best person you can possibly be to yourself and to the world.
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