If you fear never finding a partner and ultimately ending up alone, this fear may be what is actually preventing you from getting what you want.
When you fear, it actually affects your entire psyche and body language. This can be detrimental to getting what you want because when you constantly give off an air of fear, it may make others believe that you are not happy with yourself and hence, they stay away.
Your focus should be on living and experiencing your life to the fullest. When you have this fear of never finding a partner and ending up alone, it can literally freeze you in place.
You will be unwilling to get involved in new activities or even expand your circle of friends.
That fear will literally keep you chained. It will keep you chained to the same social circle. It will keep you chained to the same job. It will keep you chained to the same hang out locations.
It may even keep you chained to your home.
There is abundant life around you that you need to acknowledge.
Your goal each day should be to try something new and different.
You should be consistent with this kind of behavior.
It may be going to a different restaurant to have lunch, saying hello to that stranger that you just noticed looking at you, taking a different route to work etc.
The key is to never get tired of trying something new.
Always be willing to try something that you have never done when the opportunity comes your way.
Have the openness to do this.
When friends ask you out and you tell them you are tired, you pick yourself up and just go.
When you start opening up your life to all the new possibilities, it allows you to break out of your routine.
It will put you in a position of power and contentment.
There will be no more fear. Once that fear is gone and you have opened up your world, you give yourself the best opportunity of meeting that person who will become your partner for life.
That’s where you want to be.
Fear will be replaced with hope.
Desolation will be replaced with social activity.
When fear is no longer an impediment in your mind, you can go places in your relationships that you never thought possible.
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