You will find love, settle down and have a family when you allow yourself to become who you truly can and should be.
When you are always thinking about your lack of love, you become negative. You become so consumed with the lack of love in your life that you may start losing a sense of who you truly are as a person. You may not even realize that you are doing this.
You will stop looking people in the eye or you may start falling into bad relationships simply because you become desperate.
There are snakes who can smell a desperate person.
These snakes know how to take advantage of desperate people. They use them up, debilitate them mentally and spit them out in a much worse state than they were.
You shouldn’t be one of their victims.
You should also not determine your entire worth by whether you have found love, settled down and had a family.
This is a beautiful part of life but you should also see the beauty in other things.
When you get up each day, what do you do? Are you grateful? Do you smile and tell yourself that you are determined to do something new today?
Do you say to yourself that you will smile at that stranger or you will appreciate the scenery as you drive to school or work for once?
When you learn to love the beauty around you and within you, you become a better person. You begin to exude a sense of purpose and contentment in life.
When you start realizing that you are becoming all that you can be, you will not be unhappy, negative or desperate.
You will be perfectly content and willing to grow each and every day.
You may want to start surrounding yourself with people who think the same way. You may even start noticing that more and more people are becoming drawn to you.
Now, you are becoming. You are becoming each and every day. You will now find yourself starting conversations with perfect strangers telling them to look at that beautiful sunrise.
When they look at you, they see that you have a glow to your face.
This is when your life changes.
This is when your open spirit begins to draw the right people into your life. This is when you could meet that person who is just perfect for you.
They will love you, settle down with you and start that family with you.
They will give you the kind of life that you want and you will be grateful and happy.
Although it is important to always have a clear idea of where you want to get to in a relationship, you should always be open to allowing the interaction move towards where you hope it does in a natural way.
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