A good way to be more expressive with your girlfriend is to learn to start trusting her and believing in yourself.
The reason why you may not be expressive could be because you are uncomfortable about something. You may think that if you tried to be more expressive in some particular way, she would not approve.
That may worry you. You may also think that you simply don’t know how to do it because you have never been expressive in the past.
How do you start trusting her?
You let go of your inhibitions and understand her as a person. She has told you stories about herself. You have probably met her friends by now and even her father.
What do all those facets of her life tell you about her? They tell you that she is a unique person who has her loves and dislikes like everyone else.
You trust in that.
You trust that she is what she is and she is sincere.
How do you believe in yourself? You start by understanding why you are here.
What is your purpose?
Do you have one?
Do you aspire to be something or someone more?
That is you. This is the person you are.
You have to go to that place that is comfortable with its flaws and say, this is me.
You have to go to that place that has dreams and aspirations and say, this is where I want to go.
You do this, you bolster your belief system.
When trust and belief has been established, it will be much easier to be more expressive to your girlfriend because you will be at ease with everything.
You will trust her.
You will believe in yourself.
You will be open to expressing what you feel, think and experience. You will be willing to share these emotions with your girlfriend.
No more inhibitions.
You hold the key to being more successful at expression. You just have to use it.
The more you use it, the better your relationship will be for it.
Your girlfriend will start looking at you as a boyfriend who is truly genuine and really cares.
That will only make her want to become an even better girlfriend to you.
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